The double harvest of Xiangxi pocket talented woman own career and love superrecovery

Xiangxi a "talented woman" on their own love and career successes original title: Pocket talented happy life don’t look at my only 1.07 meters tall, can I have a mother of two children. Looking back on my coming, there is warmth, ridicule, despair, surprise, bitterness and emotion…… Have a good school I come from a small village in Xiangxi. The child had growth hormone deficiency chromosomes completely, parents borrowed twenty several million yuan to cure me, have not improved. Because of this disease, I’m short, but my head and body are symmetrical, in other words, I’m a reduced version of normal people. From my time, my father told me, I had a lot less than normal people, the only way for me is to study hard to pass the college entrance examination, will rely on mental labor to feed themselves. So, my high school three years to make efforts, college entrance examination in 2008, I was admitted to a university Changsha liberal arts scores of 550 points, a round of my university dream. To the University, everything is so fresh, so beautiful, of course, strangers curiosity, strange eyes. The new environment, everything has to adapt from scratch, and I’m naturally more difficult to adapt than normal people. The school leaders took into account my actual situation, tailored me a set of reduced tables and chairs, and specifically arranged me in the lower berth of the dormitory. My home is already in debt, cure, no money to pay tuition fees, in order to let me finish school, special school from my university all costs four years. Not easily won learning opportunities, I cherish every semester I get the scholarship, award certificates, also took a lot, my story was a lot of media coverage, also known as "a talented woman". To find a good job, a good university life, fleeting. Looking for a job has become a difficult problem in my life. The school organized several large-scale job fairs, every time I cast a resume, employers of my professional or very satisfied, but I saw the man will find all kinds of reasons for me to turn down. See my classmates, one by the employing units, I am both happy and happy is lost, they can get it, lost the world is so big, I had no place to live. When I was in trouble, I got the support and care of the district government, I was recruited into the district government. I moved to a government employee dormitory from the student dormitory, inhabited by many people originally living to separate, parents do not trust, so his family came to Changsha, lived with me. Because I am engaged in computer related work, professional counterparts, work will be handy. It’s nice to have a steady job and income and be able to support one’s own life. Parents can finally breathe a sigh of relief, but my marriage is still a problem for them. Especially the mother, the hair is white. During my college years, a lot of my classmates talked about love. After work, I see the young colleagues around me, one by one into the happy marriage hall, and I only envy. A girl with disabilities like me never thought about love, nor did she wish for marriage. Yeah, who would want to be with a girl who’s only five or six years old?

湘西“袖珍才女”自食其力 爱情事业双丰收 原标题:袖珍才女的幸福生活别看我的个子只有1.07米,可我已是两个孩子的母亲。回顾我的来时路,有温暖、有嘲笑、有绝望、有惊喜、有辛酸、有感动……遇到好学校我来自湘西的一个小山村,从小得了生长激素染色体完全缺乏症,父母借债二十几万元给我治病,都不见好转。因为这种病,导致我身材矮小,但我的脑袋和身段都是匀称的,换言之,我就是正常人的缩小版。从我懂事起,父亲就告诉我,我比正常人少了很多选择,我唯一的出路就是努力学习,考上大学,将来靠脑力劳动来养活自己。于是,我高中三年奋发图强,2008年高考,我以文科550分的好成绩被长沙某大学录取,圆了我的大学梦。来到大学,一切都是那么新鲜,那么美好,当然也少不了陌生人好奇、异样的眼光。新的环境,一切都得从头适应,我的适应难度自然比正常人要大得多。学校领导考虑我的实际情况,为我量身打造了一套缩小版的桌椅,而且还特意将我安排在宿舍里的下铺。家里为我治病,早已债台高筑,根本没钱支付学费,为了让我顺利完成学业,学校特批免去了我大学四年里的所有费用。来之不易的学习机会,我倍加珍惜,每个学期我都能拿到奖学金,各种证书、奖项也拿了很多,我的故事被很多媒体争相报道,还被誉为“袖珍才女”。找到好工作美好的大学生活,转瞬即逝。找工作,成了我人生中的一道难题。学校组织了好几次大型招聘会,每次我都投了简历,用人单位对我的专业还是很满意的,但看到我的个子,就会找各种各样的理由来婉拒我。看到我的同学,一个个被用人单位录用,我既高兴又失落,高兴的是她们都能如愿以偿,失落的是世界那么大,竟没有我的容身之所。就在我为之烦恼的时候,我得到了区政府的支持与关爱,我被特招进了区政府工作。我从学生宿舍搬到了政府机关的职工宿舍,由原来的多人居住到单独居住,父母不放心,于是举家来到长沙,跟我住在了一起。因为我从事的是与计算机相关的工作,专业对口,工作起来也就得心应手。有了稳定的工作和收入,能够自食其力,这种感觉真好。父母终于可以松一口气了,但我的终身大事仍然是困扰他们的又一难题。尤其是母亲,头发都愁白了。收获好爱情大学期间,我身边的同学有相当一部分谈起了恋爱。工作后,我看到身边那些年轻的同事,一个个都走进了幸福婚姻的殿堂,而我只有羡慕的份。像我这样身体有残疾的女孩,从未想过爱情,更不奢望婚姻。是呀,谁会愿意跟一个只有五六岁孩子身高的女孩谈恋爱结婚呢。就算对方同意,他的父母也不会同意的。我千万遍思考过这个问题,答案都是令人沮丧的,我关闭了爱情婚姻的大门,做好了孤独终老的打算。直到有一天,阿福走进了我的世界,开启了我的爱情之门。阿福是一个快递员,他总骑着一辆电动三轮车穿梭在长沙城南的大街小巷,风雨无阻。我至今记得刚认识阿福的情景。我当时网购了一台落地扇,由阿福负责派送,他到楼下给我打电话,叫我去拿快递。父母刚好不在家,于是,我来到楼下签了单,试着拖动箱子,可我怎么用力都拖不动。阿福看到了我的难处,主动帮我送到家里,我终于松了一口气。也许是天气太炎热,阿福将落地扇送到我家后突然一头栽倒在地。他中暑了,我给他倒了杯温开水,并找来藿香正气水给他服用。他休息片刻感觉好多了。阿福说他是在福利院长大的,读完中学就出来打工了,三十好几还是孤孤单单一个人,见我为他又是找药,又是倒开水这让他很感动。从此,我在这个繁华的城市又多了一个朋友。后来,我又网购了一些生活用品,每次都是阿福送的,他每次都送到门口,然后在我家里坐一会儿,聊一会儿。渐渐地,我们成了无话不谈的好朋友。为了阿福多来我家,但凡能在网上买到的东西,我都不去超市了。有时候快递少,阿福忙完,也会到我家来坐坐。时间一长,便成了一种习惯。有时,聊着聊着,就到了饭点上,我父母便会留他在家里吃饭。阿福很大方,也不跟我们客气,主动提出来亲自下厨。母亲说哪有让客人下厨的道理。阿福也不多话,直接去厨房忙活开来,好像在自己家里一样。母亲看着这个小伙子,大方能干,笑得合不拢嘴,我自然也是十分开心。一个小时不到,几道色香味俱全的菜就端上了桌。尤其是剁椒鱼头,味道特别好。母亲对他的厨艺赞不绝口,还说要是谁嫁给他,就有口福了。阿福得到了母亲的夸赞很开心,不时地朝我笑。阿福休息的时候,会约我逛街、看风景,只要我有空,也很乐意跟他在长沙城里走走,虽说我到长沙四五年,但很多地方只从同学、同事的口中听说过,并没有真正去过。我们外出,有时候是步行,有时候是坐他的车,但不管是什么形式,都会引来路人的特别关注,我观察了阿福脸上的表情,他始终微笑,并没有觉得尴尬或难为情,这让我稍微心安了一点。洋湖湿地公园、南郊公园、橘子洲头、岳麓山、大王山……我们几乎走遍了长沙所有的景点,我突然发现,长沙原来这么美。终于有一天,阿福郑重其事地对我说,他想有个家,希望这个家的女主人就是我。我惊讶得半天没有缓过神来,这怎么可能。虽然我很感动,但婚姻不是儿戏,我让他慎重考虑,不但要承受外人异样的目光,甚至流言蜚语;还要承担不能生育的风险。他说他已经考虑好了,就看我的了。为了打消我的顾虑,不会开玩笑的他竟然跟我开起了玩笑,他说秤砣虽小压千斤,辣椒还是小的辣。他的这番话,一直在我的耳边回响,很多个夜晚,我辗转反侧彻夜难眠,作为一个残疾人,能有一个四肢健全,而且勤劳体贴的伴侣,那是我上辈子修来的福分啊。父母尊重我的选择,只要我幸福,他们就高兴。就这样,我们简简单单地结了婚。天赐好女儿婚后,要不要孩子,一直是我内心最纠结的问题。要的话,万一孩子遗传了我的基因,像我一样,岂不是害了孩子么?不要的话,我又觉得对不起阿福,不能因为我的原因而剥夺了他做爸爸的权利。阿福是一个善解人意的男人,他似乎看出了我的心事,特意找我聊起了这事,说你不生孩子没有关系,咱们可以到福利院领养一个,好好地将其养大,好好地培养,虽然不是亲生也会胜似亲生的。阿福说话算话,他为了领养孩子的事,民政局、福利院来回跑,通过层层审批,我们终于领养到了一个小女孩,三岁多一点,活泼可爱,也就是我现在的大女儿小月月,领进家门的那一刻,我喜极而泣。不是一家人,不进一家门。从那一刻起,我就是这个孩子的妈妈,阿福就是这个孩子的爸爸,我们终于有了一个完整的家庭,我和阿福都感觉特别的幸福,我们也暗暗下定决心,无论如何,都要将孩子好好抚养,虽然给不了她最好的生活,至少也要给她最温暖的家庭。也许是冥冥之中注定的缘分。有一天早晨,我起来呕吐得特别厉害,以为自己得了什么大病,阿福请了假带我去医院检查,结果又惊又喜——我怀孕了。从那一刻起,我又开始担心孩子的健康问题。虽然我不是高龄产妇,但我还是在16周的时候做了只有高龄产妇才做的检查——无创DNA检测。检测结果显示,各项基因指标并没有发现异常,我悬着的心终于落了地。今年7月份,我剖宫产下一个健康的女婴,各项指标都在正常的范围之内。喜得千金的阿福,更是乐得合不拢嘴,逢人就说,你们瞧一瞧,我女儿跟我是一个模子里出来的。看到阿福这么高兴,身边又有两个女儿围绕,我别提有多幸福了。我有时候在想,我是不是在做梦?一听到女儿的哭声,我知道喂牛奶或是换尿不湿的时间到了,我才真切地感到,这一切不是在做梦,而是实实在在的幸福。倾诉:小乔年龄:26职业:政府雇员采访:张闻骥(长沙晚报)点击进入2016湖南教育状况调查问卷,扫一扫填写还有Iphone7、apple-watch及腾讯QQ公仔、定制U盘等几百个壕礼等着你!还不快把它们带回家?求抱走~~(大湘君偷偷告诉你,中奖概率超高!)相关的主题文章:

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